caring for someone.
wanting the best for them.
wandering if their safe.
these things are not hard, and they are indeed a choice.
a simple act
of choosing..to love.
so where does this concept of "love at first sight" come from.
this disillusion of being "in love."
truthfully everyone has people who they are more attracted to.at first this may be because of some shallow reason like the way they look,or the way they carry themselves, to the type of vibe they give off, where you can simple tell you have something in common.
when people get to know a person they are already attracted to they are more prone to love them.not because some magical reason but because they were already interesting in the other. why not choose to care for someone that was already in your thoughts just from their initial presence.
from this problems often develop.once you make up your mind to love someone it is hard, and virtually impossible to resign.basing the decision to love on quick encounters often leads to loving those who take too much effort to be loved.this may sound a tad bit cold, but look at it this way.how are you going to do everything in your power to care about someone, worry about them, and want to the best for them if they do not care, worry, or want the best for themselves?who you love is not out of your control...
truth is,you can love anybody
you don't even have to meet a person to love them
but most people are not selfless enough to care fully about another human's life and well being without getting something in return.
this exchange may be something as simple as their presence, or comfort, but it could also be,a label,physical satisfaction,or even delusion created by unrealistic standards of what love should be.
a solution:
love yourself,
love everybody else,but be aware that everybody is not capable of loving themselves. and know that only they can fix this problem.don't be so blind to hurt yourself while trying to care about somebody else.
don't be so blind to hurt yourself while loving someone else
